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Wednesday, 12 Aug 2009
- The recession is officially over, at least it is
according to the impresarios behind a series of parties
that are strictly for employees of two of New York’s most
high-profile industries: fashion and
finance.
The invitation to the latest Fashion Meets
Finance party — an affair that shamelessly includes only women
who work in fashion and men from Wall Street — declared that
the dark days are over — not just for the economy, but in the
dating market, The New York Times’s Katherine Bindley
reported.
“We are here to announce the balance is
restoring itself to the ecosystem of the New York dating
community,” the party organizers said on their cheeky Web
site.
The site allowed people to post R.S.V.P.’s,
including job titles and salaries, and while many entries were
clearly fictitious (“David” who works in “cougar trading”),
there was nothing imaginary about the hundreds of well-dressed,
well-groomed people who snaked down East 50th Street waiting to
get into Nikki Beach in Midtown Manhattan on Thursday
night.
In an effort to screen out pretenders, a
woman at the door in tortoise-shell sunglasses inspected each
guest’s business card.
“I have no business cards because we’re in a
recession and we’re not allowed to order them,” called out
Lauren Paluzzi, 27, who said she is a manager of corporate
finance for Liz Claiborne. She was waved in
anyway.
Inside, seated atop plush white cushions on
wooden furniture, St. Tropez-style, guests gamely confirmed the
stereotype that attractive women who work in fashion just want
to find wealthy men in finance, and vice versa.
Lesya Yanush, 30, who said she was a former
model (and made it past the door staff even though she now
works in real estate), explained that she found bankers more
stable, focused and trustworthy as boyfriends.
“From my experience, I’ve dated lawyers and
doctors and they’re nice; I just prefer finance,” Ms. Yanush
said, before applying a fresh gloss of candy-apple-red lipstick
in the ladies room. “My girlfriends who are in long-term
relationships with finance guys are very happy.”
Alan Nieves, 24, a derivatives salesman for
an investment bank, confirmed that when it comes to who
attracts whom, “There’s a system in place and that’s how it
is,” adding, “it’s the New York scene.”
His friend Matt Dratch, 24, who defied the
dominant charcoal gray suit trend of the evening by sporting a
black polo, was not convinced that the recovering economy had
prompted the event’s strong turnout. “I’m pretty sure most of
the guys would still be here if the tagline was, ‘Things are
getting worse but you can still meet girls in fashion,’ ” he
said.
The idea behind Fashion Meets Finance began
in 2007 with Beth Newill, a merchandiser for Ann
Taylor at the time, who found the garment district was
a poor neighborhood in which to meet men. After speaking with a
male friend who worked in finance and had expressed the same
frustration about the absence of eligible women in the
financial district, Ms. Newill organized regular happy hours
for the two groups.
Fast forward two and half years. Fashion
Meets Finance puts on increasingly popular gatherings every
several months, promoting them in e-mail blasts and with
over-the-top marketing that has been easy bait for online
mockery.
The text with the latest invitation, the
first party since January, was typical: “We fear that news of
shrinking bonuses, banks closing and the Dow plummeting
confused the gorgeous women of the city who understood that
their shelf life is quick and fleeting like a senator’s South
American love affair. The uncertainty caused panic which caused
irrational decisions — there’s going to be a two-year blip in
the system where a hot fashion girl might commit to a
pharmaceutical salesman.”
The women were encouraged to hold on because
the recession is over, and it would only be a matter of time
before a boyfriend in finance enabled them to quit their jobs
to be “tennis moms.”
Jeremy Abelson, 29, the founder of an online
luxury newsletter called Pocket Change, who creates most of the
Web site’s copy, said, “It’s offensive but it’s very
realistic.”
Some women at the party said that the
recession never shook their confidence in the appeal of
financial-industry mates.
Kathleen Reardon, 25, a production
coordinator for Jones Apparel Group, said she
noticed that Wall Street men seemed more stressed as a result
of the economy but she never found them less dateable. “They
never seemed less appealing,” she said, sipping drinks with
co-workers on the second floor of the club. “That would be like
men becoming unappealing.”
As the night wore on, BlackBerrys were
pulled out of pockets for the exchange of phone numbers, women
began dancing on tables under the glow of colored lights, and
at least one fashion gal and finance guy had clearly found a
connection, making out on a couch near the entrance.
A 25-year-old financial analyst who was
double-fisting glasses of Johnnie Walker Black, said that
identifying yourself as a banker (“dropping the banker bomb” as
he put it) had traditionally been a potent lure on the dating
scene. “As the recession got worse, the magic bullet lost some
of its mojo,” said the analyst, who asked not to be named to
protect his employer, a private equity firm, from the publicity
associated with the evening. “All my paralegal friends were
suddenly getting dates and my banker friends weren’t.”
His own social life, at least, did not
suffer because of recession, he said, but he still didn’t see
the potential to meet someone special this night.
“Let’s just say I’m not going to find my
future ex-wife here,” he said.
Source:http://dealbook.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/08/10/fashion-meets-finance-finding-your-future-ex/
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